So there's this thing with mothers and daughters.
Linguist Deborah Tannen says: "There is a
special intensity to the mother-daughter relationship because talk --
particularly talk about personal topics -- plays a larger and more complex
role in girls' and women's social lives than in boys' and men's. For girls and
women, talk is the glue that holds a relationship together -- and the
explosive that can blow it apart. That's why you can think you're having a
perfectly amiable chat, then suddenly find yourself wounded by the shrapnel
from an exploded conversation."
For her book,
You're Wearing That? Understanding Mothers and Daughters in Conversation, she interviewed dozens of women of varied geographic, racial and cultural
backgrounds, and had informal conversations or e-mail exchanges with
countless others. The complaint she heard most often from daughters was, "My
mother is always criticizing me." The corresponding complaint from mothers
was, "I can't open my mouth. She takes everything as criticism."
This sheds light on what happens when my mom and I get in the kitchen together. The most recent instance was
when I went down to visit her a few weeks ago and thought it would be fun to bake a pie together with nectarines we bought at the farmer's market. For the filling, I used
this recipe from Bon Appetit, which calls for "
3 1/2 pounds firm but ripe peaches, peeled, halved, pitted, each half cut into 3 wedges." So as we begin preparing the ingredients, my mom asks, "Do we have to really peel all these peaches, or can we just blanch them and slip the skins off?" Now if I had been alone and thought to google peeling peaches for pie, I would have found that this is a time tested method for easily peeling stone fruit. But since it was my mom suggesting it, what I heard was, "Are you really going to be so prissy and ignorant as to peel this fruit by hand??" So of course I had to get all, "Mom!!! Can we just go by the recipe???" Yes, that's right, I made my poor little mom, who has arthritis in her thumbs by the way, peel 3 1/2 pounds of nectarines with a little veggie peeler out of pure defensiveness.
And that's nothing - you should have seen what happened over Christmas!
I had this big plan to make a 5 course Italian-style seafood feast for Christmas Eve dinner and then roast a duck for Christmas. The duck recipe involved boiling the duck in a ginger broth the day before and then letting it chill in the refrigerator overnight before crisping the skin in the oven the next day. So on December 24, while my mom and I were shucking oysters and preparing smoked salmon hors d'oeuvres and searing scallops to go over a balsamic frisee salad and cooking linguine with clam sauce and sauteeing garlic green beans and baking crab-stuffed shrimp, I also had to boil a duck.
Did I mention the duck was frozen? The recipe had instructed us to defrost the duck in the refrigerator the day before. But after 24 hours in the fridge, that duck was still rock hard. No biggie, since I was going to boil it anyway, but it did present a challenge extracting the packet of giblets and innards from the cavity. I used a combination of warm water and tongs to pry the bird open a few centimeters and wrench out the plastic packet before slipping the duck into the pot of boiling water. About 20 minutes later, in the midst of my seafood machinations, I came across the packet in the sink. "Orange Sauce for Duckling," it said on the front. "OH SHIT!!" I yelled. "That wasn't the giblet packet it was some dumb sauce! So now the giblets are probably still in there and the plastic packet is going to melt in the boiling water and wreck the whole thing!!" I grabbed the tongs and started fishing inside the boiling duck for the errant giblets.
Have you ever tried extracting a hidden packet of organs from the cavity of a duck submerged in boiling liquid? It's not easy let me tell you. "Just take the duck out of the pot, Robin!" my mom shouted. "But it's all wet and hot, it will fall apart if I try to take it out! I have to just do it like this!" I grabbed a silicon oven mitt and tried to grab hold of the duck to stabilize it. "Robin, get your hand out of that pot!" she yelled. Now in hindsight I can see that my mom actually had much better common sense than I did in this situation. But in that moment I did not want to hear criticism of an endeavor that was already on the brink of failure. "Mom just GET AWAY FROM ME AND LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!" I yelled. And then, you won't believe this, but my mom actually spanked me on the butt. Furious, I gripped the duck harder and plunged my tongs deep into the cavity. Just as I realized that it was empty, there was apparently no giblet packet at all, boiling water and duck fat surged over the rim of the silicon mitt and down my hand.
Fortunately my injuries were treatable with aloe and some bandaids and did not merit a trip to the ER. Cause that would have thrown my whole cooking schedule off for the night.
Compared with that episode, in the incident of the peach-bitching, we both came out relatively unscathed. And the pie was totally worth it. In fact, I think I'd willingly scald my hand for this pie. The caramel sauce is an absolutely divine touch. And on this my mom and I both agreed: this was the best peach pie we'd ever eaten.
Peach Caramel Lattice Crust PieCrust recipe from Rose Levy Berenbaum
Filling recipe from Bon Appetit
via epicurious.comIngredients:Pie Crust:
2 2/3 cups (13 oz) all purpose flour
1/4 teaspoon sea salt
1/4 teaspoon baking powder
6 oz chilled cream cheese, cut into quarters
16 Tablespoons (2 sticks) frozen, unsalted butter cut into 1/2 inch cubes
4 Tablespoons heavy cream
4 teaspoons cider vinegar
1 egg
1 tablespoon sugar
1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
Filling:1 cup sugar, divided
1/2 teaspoon (scant) ground cinnamon
Pinch of salt
3 1/2 pounds firm but ripe peaches, peeled, halved, pitted, each half cut into 3 wedges
1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
1/4 cup water
2 tablespoons (1/4 stick) unsalted butter
2 tablespoons whipping cream
3 tablespoons all purpose flour
Instructions:For pie crust:
In a food processor, combine 2 2/3 cups flour, sea salt and baking powder. Process to combine. Add cream cheese and process until coarse. Add the frozen butter cubes and process until butter is peanut size. Add the cream and vinegar and pulse until butter is the size of small peas.
Transfer mixture to a bowl and mix swiftly with a fork until dough holds together, about 5 minutes.
Place dough on a lightly floured surface and divide into 2 equal halves. Roll each piece into a ball and press the ball into a smooth, flat disc. Wrap each disc in plastic wrap and refrigerate for at least 45 minutes.
Position rack in center of oven and preheat to 375°F. Place foil-lined baking sheet in bottom of oven to catch any spills.
Roll out 1 pie crust disk on lightly floured surface to 13 1/2-inch round. Transfer to 9-inch-diameter glass pie dish. Trim overhang to 1 inch. Fold edges under and crimp decoratively, forming high rim (about 1/2 inch above sides of dish). Chill crust 30 minutes.
Meanwhile, line another baking sheet with parchment paper. Roll out second pie crust disc on floured surface to 13 1/2-inch round. Cut into 3/4-inch-wide strips. Place strips on prepared baking sheet. Chill while baking crust.
When well chilled, line crust with foil; fill with dried beans, pie weights, or even spare change. Bake crust until sides are set and pale golden, about 35 minutes. (While it’s baking, you can prepare the filling, below.)
Do not turn off oven. Transfer crust to rack; remove foil and beans/weights/change. Separate the egg, setting the yolk aside. Beat the egg white to blend, and brush it over the warm crust. Cool completely.
For filling:
Combine 1/2 cup sugar, cinnamon, and salt in large bowl. Add peaches and lemon juice and toss gently to coat. Let stand 30 minutes.
Meanwhile, stir remaining 1/2 cup sugar and 1/4 cup water in medium saucepan over medium heat until sugar dissolves. Increase heat; boil without stirring until syrup is deep amber, occasionally swirling pan and brushing down sides with wet pastry brush, about 11 minutes.
Remove from heat. Add butter and cream (mixture will bubble vigorously); stir caramel until smooth. Strain juices from peaches into caramel; cool to lukewarm.
When filling and crust are cooled, add caramel and flour to peaches in bowl; toss gently. Transfer filling to crust, mounding in center.
Prepare lattice crust. You can do this two ways.
The easy way is, arrange 6 of the chilled pie crust strips diagonally across the top of the pie, then place the remaining 6 pastry strips diagonally in opposite direction atop first 6 strips.
Of course, since my mom suggested this, I had to do it the hard way instead: for a woven lattice crust, arrange 6 dough strips in 1 direction across top of pie, spacing apart. Working with 1 strip at a time, arrange 6 more strips in opposite direction atop first, lifting strips and weaving over and under, forming lattice. (
Pillsburybaking.com has a great diagram showing the easiest way to do this, as well as tons of other pie crust decorating tips.)
Gently press ends of strips to edge of baked bottom crust to adhere. Trim overhang.
Mix the egg yolk you set aside earlier with 2 teaspoons water and brush lattice strips (but not crust edge) with egg yolk glaze.
Mix together 1 Tablespoon sugar and 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon to make cinnamon sugar, and sprinkle it over the egg-washed strips.
Bake pie 35 minutes. After 35 minutes, tent pie loosely with foil to prevent overbrowning and continue to bake pie until filling bubbles thickly and lattice is golden brown, about 25 minutes longer. Cool pie on rack.
Serves 6-8 and creates mother-daughter harmony and possibly global peace. Or at least global peach.
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